Skip to content

Playing with your Children (or grandchildren) by Guest Blogger Louise Robertson

January 20, 2011

Ask questions to help you understand what your children are playing.

Play is a child’s work! If play is their work, then toys are their tools. While they may not be learning to read or compute, they’re learning the skills that allow their academic pursuits later to develop – imagination, sharing, resourcefulness, cooperation, problem solving, initiative, adaptability. One of the best parts of parenting (or grandparenting), is to participate at some level in their play. What can you do?

  • Observe.    Just watch your child play.  Which toy(s) do they choose?  What are they doing with the toy?  Is this something new and different?  Is the play imaginative or concrete?  What new wisdom are they creating?
  • Talk.     Spend time talking with your child as they play. Ask questions: What happened when you…? What might happen if you….? I wonder why it did that.  What might be the reason? Give specific compliments: That’s the fastest you’ve worked a puzzle ever!  Beautiful; I like that you mixed green and purple!
  • Help them learn new ways to play with the toys.     Help them sort or stack in a new pattern. Show them something about the toy they’ve not yet discovered.  Can you use it to empty and fill?  Push or pull?  Get them started then check back in to keep them going.
  • Enjoy.    Ah, maybe the best part is watching your child make new discoveries and inventions. Hearing the story they tell with the toy. Capturing the memories.


If you are looking to buy a gift or toy for your child or grandchild, think of Heirloom Wooden Toys where we provide sustainable, safe wooden toys, games and furniture that will last for generations to come.  You can shop by Age, Price, Brand, or just browse hundreds of products for all kinds of kids.  Many of our products are Made in the USA so you can support businesses that are keeping jobs at home.  Looking for custom products?  We have a large selection of items that can be personalized or engraved with your name or message.  Free Shipping on orders over $99!  Contact Kitty Robertson Morse at or (866) 202-8073.

No comments yet

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )


Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: